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Digital Parenting: Radical and Intentional

Last week I had the honor and privilege to teach a class at the Revival Youth Minister's Retreat at Graymere Church of Christ in Columbia, Tenneessee. I got to talk to some youth ministers and give them the exact same talk that was on the Ministry Bits podcast this week. I got some great insight from those guys just talking with them about the subject of internet safety and digital parenting and how we can help parents be on top of it better. 

One thing that stuck out to me (that I actually wrote down because it was so good) was what Jon Morris said during the class: 

"If you're telling me that 60% of the internet is porn, then we as Christians and Christian parents need to start being radical and intentional with this whole internet safety thing."

Radical and intentional.

Two things I think that we as Christian parents have not been

We need to be radical in our thinking and intentional with our actions regarding our kids' safety on the internet. We need to be those parents who are relentless on keeping our kids safe and not apologize for doing it. We need to make sure that we don't let other parents influence our decisions to do these radical things. Protecting our children from these dangers and letting the internet be a tool for communication, rather than a method of destruction. 

I've gotten a great response to the podcast yesterday. This is a huge need for our parents and I'm glad to be able to help, even if just a tiny bit. Take a listen to episode 008 and let me know what you think. 

And then be radical and intentional with your own kids. 

Making Time for Family

Below is the audio, notes, and slides for a sermon I preached this past Sunday evening at Church Street. It was originally first taught as a class at Restore, a family conference put on by Chase Park Church of Christ in Huntsville, AL back in August 2013. I'm happy to share it with you today. 

Higher Resolutions for a New Year

Have you ever seen a 4K television? They’re amazing. 

If not, go find one. Now. I’ll wait. 

See, told you it was amazing. 

I’m a huge video guy. Before I was into web design and print design, I was into video. I remember filming sequences when I was a kid with my friends destroying toys in our back yard with an 8mm camcorder. I remember the first time I saw a high-def TV. So you may be saying to yourself, what is this 4K? 

4K (stands for 4,000) is the next resolution evolution in video. Not many companies are doing it yet, but by 2018 I think 4K will be huge. 2014 is going to be big for 4K, according to video guru Alex Lindsay

When you look at a 4K (sometimes also called UHD or Ultra High Definition), your eyeball sometimes cannot distinguish between what’s real and what’s not. Properly shot 4K footage simply looks amazing on a 4K TV. 

If you go back just 20 years, video resolutions were pretty horrible. Try looking at a standard-definition TV even nowadays and seeing what it was like. And SD today looks much better than SD from the mid-90’s. 

Why? It’s all because of resolution

Resolution is what drives what we see. From a retina Macbook screen to an iPhone 5 screen to a 4K TV, we’re looking at resolutions all day long. 

It’s time for a higher resolution for this new year. 

(See what I did there?)

In 2014, bring things into clearer focus. I have three suggestions for some atypical higher resolutions that we can make for the new year. 


I. Focus on what’s important. 

If you were really honest with yourself, what would stay and what would go in your life if you had to trim everything down? What TV shows or movies would you stop watching? What books would you start reading? What relationships would you renew?

Sounds cheesy I know, but every new year (and every new day, in fact) is a perfect excuse to focus more on your relationship with Jesus. How well do you know him? How much do you read and study about him? If we are to be call “Christians”, which means followers of Christ, why aren’t we following him as much as we like following our favorite sports teams, athletes, books, TV shows and movies? Sports and TV shows and movies won’t get you to heaven - Jesus Christ will. Focus on what’s important. 

Colossians 3.2 and Hebrews 12.2 encourage us to focus on Jesus, what’s really important. All other things in our lives are secondary to following and doing the will of our Savior. 


II. Make every pixel in your life display Jesus. 

Those new UHD/4K televisions I was talking about? They allow you to see things with such clarity and focus that your eyeballs can’t distinguish real life from what's on the screen. 

What if we were able to do the same thing with Jesus? What if we were able to live like him in every aspect of our lives, unable to distinguish “church life” from “real life?” What if our “real life” encompassed everything Jesus taught us? What if we were able to live out His message every single day, with no one being able to tell a difference no matter where we were?

You see, to be a true servant of Christ requires that kind of commitment. This only being a Christian on Sundays and Wednesdays doesn’t work. Sure, you may be able to fool a lot of people, in fact, you may be able to fool everyone - but you can't fool God. 

Any screen you look at is made up of pixels. Ever seen an old 8-bit Nintendo game? They didn’t have many pixels to work with, so games didn’t look as good as they could. Fast forward 25 years to the release of the Xbox One last month. A racing game called Forza looks amazing, even on a “regular” HD TV. The cars look like real cars. It’s unbelievable. 

Any video or computer engineer knows that the more pixels they can push, the better clarity of the image. That’s why those retina screens in Apple products look so good, because they cram as many pixels as they can into such small packages to make them clearer and clearer. 

What if every “pixel” or piece of our life reflected the image of Christ? (Matthew 5.16) Every screen you look at is nothing more than a collection of pixels. Every life we look at is nothing more than a collection of choices. Small, itty-bitty choices that make up the whole picture of our lives. What does that look like? And when people look at the “pixels” of your life, does the picture look like Jesus? Or something else?


III. Give people the “Wow!” factor in 2014. 

Some things you just remember, and they stick in your head. Maybe it was the first time you saw a movie you loved. Or maybe you visited a place that stuck with you. Regardless of what it is, it was a “Wow!” moment for you. 

I’m such a nerd. I remember the first time I saw a Macintosh computer. Wow. I remember the first time I saw a high-def television and a 4K television. Wow. I remember the first time I held an iPhone. Double wow. 

Will people look at your life and say, “Wow. They are really living that Christian life!” or won’t they? The true way of Christianity is attractive, and there’s so many people that call themselves Christians that look nothing like what a true Christian should look like, and that turns people off in a big way. 

If you were to go to a movie and accidentally go into the wrong theater, you’d be turned off by that. I came to see The Avengers and ended up seeing some romantic comedy. That’s not what I wanted or intended to see. 

People look at Christians and expect to see something great. And when we’re hypocrites and we don’t live out Christ (or at least try our best to), people are turned off by that. 

We do not seek the praise of men, but we are to be a sweet smelling aroma to those who are lost (2 Corinthians 2:15ff). Our job is to make disciples. And to do that, Christianity must look appealing. It must look like the better way of life that we know it is. People need to look at us and say “Wow, what a servant.” If they don’t, they won’t see Christ as He truly should be. 

Again, I know I reached on some of those illustrations, but I hope I conveyed to you the idea to not have the typical New Year’s resolutions this year, but to have higher ones this year. 

Make 2014 all about Christ and see how far He will take you. 

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Robbie's Thoughts on Phil Robertson

I am a bit tired of the constant chorus from evangelicals talking about how we have wavered from being a “Christian nation” and that we need to get the nation back to “founding principles.” Look, we need to lead people to Jesus and to be participants of the kingdom regardless of national affinities.

I would have wrote out my thoughts on this as well, only Robbie said it better

What Do Elders Do?

Chris Clevenger has an excellent post on his blog that you should check out about Elders in the church and what they do. This is especially important, not only for ministers and youth ministers (where Elders would technically be our bosses at work), but very important for the church member as well:

The elders of the church have a great amount of responsibility. Their work is multifaceted and is often extremely difficult. The hours which they invest in the service of God often go unnoticed and under appreciated. Many Christians recognize their elders, but fewer know exactly what they do. The primary work of elders is not accomplished in secret, back-room meetings; their leadership should be evident.

Be sure to go check out Chris' post. And his nicely redesigned blog.

What Do Elders Do? [via Chris Clevenger]